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SPANKING PARTNER CHECKLIST Here is a list of activities that you may find helpful in guiding your Domestic Discipline (DD) lifestyle. The list is filled out by the Spankee for the Spanker's use. However, the list can also be filled out by the Spanker, to give ideas what they may be interested in. Then you may choose to sit down and go over the lists together. Circle/Highlight all activities that you are open to and would like to try, or that are important to you. At a later date or after trying items you can then rate them 0 to 5. A zero indicates no desire but you are willing to do it to please the Spanker, five means it is a wild turn-on. Spanker's can choose what to incorporate in DD by the Spankee's answers. (If the Spankee hates asking for a spanking, then if they are really bad.......make them ask!) It is to give those who aren't familiar with the whole concept around spanking, a look at what they can incorporate into it. These are just some ideas on how you might be able to use it. TYPE:
• Sensual • Erotic • Fun • Just Because • Discipline CLOTHING:
• Over Clothing • Bare Bottom • Over Panties • Over Panties then to Bare • Completely Nude • Nightgown & Bare Bottom • Tight Teddy Hiked Up Crack POSITIONS:
• OTK/Spanker sitting in Straight Back Chair • Over Lap on Bed or Sofa • Spankee Laying on Bed with Pillows to Raise the Bottom • Bent over Edge of Bed • Bent Over Straight Back Chair • Over Back of Sofa/Chair • Over Arm of Sofa/Chair • OTK / Spanker's Right Leg over Spankee's Legs, Holding Wrists Behind Back (if right handed) • Over Kitchen Table • Over Spanking Horse (for enthusiasts) • Whipping Post IMPLEMENTS:
• Hand • Hairbrush • Paddle Wooden/Acrylic • Paddle With Holes/Without • Leather Paddle • Switch • Belt/Strap • Wooden Ruler • Wooden Spoon • Rubber Spatula • Bath Brush • Sandal/Slipper • Cane • Flogger • Tawse • Rubber Hose • Riding Crop • Yardstick • Birch Rod Soaked In Brine • Oven Shovel EXTRAS:
• Corner Time • Corner Time W/Hands On Head • Fetching The Switch • Flurries • Lectures/Scolding • Scolding Before/During • Rubbing Bottom • Stripped • Phrases Used • Safeword • Restraints • Counting Strokes • Following Orders • Sent To Bed Early • Mouth Washing • Mouth Washing done In Middle of If Used During Spanking • Spanker Baring Bottom • Spankee Ordered To Bare Bottom • Told What to Expect Ahead of Time • Corner Time While Holding Implement • Shop for Implements Together • Spankee Required To Pay For Implements • Spankee Required To Ask For A Spanking • Required To Address The Spanker As Sir/Or Other Name • Spankee Ordered To Retrieve Implement • Penalties [Extra Swats] (Not following Orders / Missing Count / Covering Up / Moving Out Of Position) • Phone Call Earlier in Day........Telling What Is To Come • Spankee Explaining Why They Are Receiving Correction • Hands During Spanking: Behind Head / Back / On Floor • Spankee Holds Implement During Hand Spanking and Then Hands Implement to Spanker • Spankee Required To Show Spanker Condition Of Their Bottom by Dropping Panties (One hour afterwards or Next Morning) • No Clothes For 24 Hours • Wearing a Sign "I have been spanked for being a bad girl/boy." • Following the spanking but while still over lap having the red and tender bottom cheeks coated with ben-gay to reinforce the sting. POST SPANKING:
• Hugs/Cuddling • Sitting On Lap • Sex • Corner Time • Spankee Required To Thank Spanker • Spankee Feeling Love, Cherished, Protected & Secure • Spankee Feeling Guilt Free • Photograph Of Marks
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