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Meeting Info
Meetings
Directions to meetings
The TNGC SEDS meeting, our educational demo is from 7 to 9PM the first Saturday of the month. We want to find out about you, and what you want to get out of the group. Future meetings will go from there, so your input is going to help direct what we do with the groups, where it goes and what you will get out of them. So don't be shy or afraid to bring anything up.
Legal
Must Bring a Legal Form of Photo ID with to show you're between the ages 18 and 35 (if your partner is over 35 you may bring them in with you). Once your inside you can go by whatever name you want to.
Dress
Our weekly munch is held at a public coffee shop, so please dress appropriately as you would in public. Our monthly SEDS meeitng is more flexible, you can wear anything your comfortable in, casual, dress, fetish, it doesn't matter, you can also bring clothes to change in if you would like to.
Cost
The meetings are FREE. However, our locations have been generous enough to host us. For the weekly much, patronizing the venue is appreciated. For our SEDS monthly demo, you are welcome and encouraged to leave a donation to the LA&M to show your appreciation for their generosity and the good work that they do.
Some of the past SEDS meetings have consisted of the following, and much much more...
Recent Discussions
Future Meeting demos and programming (such as Dom & sub support Transgender
Sadism Japanese rope Bondage (shibari, kinbaku) Negotiations Recent Demos
Caning & Flogging
Shibari Safety & Sterilization Pervertables The 30 second scene Dirty Santa Puppy & Pony Play Etiquette Medical Play Future Possible Demo Ideas
- Electrical Play - Violet wands vs. TENS units - safety/etc.
- Sensory Deprivation (or an excuse to hang out in a vaccuum bed) - Single Tails (although the annex is a bit small for that...) - Fake Branding and other mind-fuck scenes - Plaster body casts - Corsetry (as body modification) - Chastity Devices Medical Scenes (sounds, catheters...) - Setting up effective interrogation/torture scenes. Possible Dicussion Ideas
- How do you deal with having kinks you may not be fully comfortable with?
- Does "why" matter with regard to kink interests? - How do you take fantasies that are "impossible" and realize them? - Real life issues vs. scene relationship desires. (i.e. real life intrudes on 24/7) - How do you determine where you fit in the lifestyle? (top, bottom, sub, dom, slave, owner/master, switch...) - What happens when what you thought you wanted isn't what you expect? (i.e. slave/sub that is really more of a bottom, etc) - How do you go from knowing that you know you like something to finding the people who are into it too? - What if you have a really unusual kink? - Safe and Sane vs. Risk Aware... what are the implications of the two ideas and how do they relate to different styles of play? - What does it mean to have a true fetish? - Issues in play with someone who has a true fetish. (i.e. you are playing with the person, but they are playing with an object or idea) - Issues surrounding psychological edge play. Last updated: 12/07
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